i wonder if it's signs of aging or signs of wisdom.
i can't help by feel old when i see myself enjoying watching channel news asia and wanting to have a phone that i can just use to make calls and sms. =X instead of going after impressive specs, i go more for lasting functions.
anyways, i was surfing CNA's site and browsed to their anchors' blogs.
was at Steven Chia's and the more i read, i just really felt inspired. haha! :) click here
his latest post is about relationships. i quote...
"...You see, there is so much happening in our world everyday and it doesn’t stop happening. Work may be challenging but I think the most challenging role we all have -maintaining and building the relationships we have with others.
Whether it’s your family, your friends or your colleagues, it takes pure hard work to keep relationships strong. Each person is unique and will have different expectations from their relationship with you. And different things work for different people. And just when you think you’ve got it sorted out, they go ahead and change so what worked before doesn’t any more. So it’s a constant “job” and one that you have to keep working at all the time.
But I enjoy doing that. I find it fulfililng to interact with people and I think to a certain extent, I feed off them. Let me explain. When you are with people, you talk to them, you share your thoughts/ opinions with them, they give you feedback, they share their side of the story…along the way, there are happy, sad, funny moments. So when you think about it, during that 30 mins of coffee with your good friend, you’ve just been through a bit of a roller coaster ride. Some days you leave feeling happy and uplifted, some days you leave feeling a bit down, but you always leave with something that you’ve taken from that time with your friend. So on those days you leave a bit sadder, chances are your friend may be a bit happier. They confided in you, you gave them encouragement and they leave with hope that things will improve, you on the other hand, leave feeling a bit sad for your friend.
That’s how it works. Relationships are a give and take and that’s what makes the bond between us stronger. We grow with each other as we know more about each other and therefore we learn to care more for each other. To a certain extent, it’s like a job. But and a big BUT, the rewards are much, much better!..."
i think he's a smart and hot daddy. :)
that's all for now. :)
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