来至心里的一些话

just finished watching some dramas. in the midst of it, many words started to form.
decided to blog it down.

what is your love style?

i used to have this friend ask me a couple of times, "tabi, how can you take it? not having a special someone by your side?" obviously this friend needs a someone to love.

anyways, i always answer this friend, "well, there are friends and there is family."

I've said this before and i say it again.
I've been blessed to be born in a surrounding where love is never lacking. from my parents and brother, to my grandparents, to my uncles and aunties (who are like my other moms and dads), and my cousins (who are like my other siblings) and not forgetting, my close friends.
I don't have to be reminded that i am loved. i know it. right down to my bones.
I'm kind of always ready to give love. to smile. :)

I would have to say, my friends are or have to be quite independent. like we're not the sticky kind who have to meet ever SO often, but when something happy or sad happens, we know or they know, they can share it with me and i can share it with them. :)

i've been sharing with quite a few people. i think i'm ready for a new phase in life. looking out for a mr right. :) and they're all excited to pray along with me. haha! i used to think.."it'll be nice if a mr right comes along the way", now.. "mr right will come". haha!

anyways, since i'm on the topic of mr right.
things work for me this way,
-If i raised an eyebrow and spotted someone, and found out he's attached already. i stop. (i don't spoil others' relationships.)
-If the someone i spotted tells me they like someone else or am thinking of going after someone else, i stop.
-If a guy and a girl gets together, the guy has to take more initiative (duh? i'm traditional. =p)

one may say i should fight for it and let the best one "win", i say, love can't be forced.
one may say i give up too easily, i say, i don't wanna get hurt.
one may say i am a strong girl, i say, i just wanna protect myself from getting emotionally hurt.

爱
只有简单笔画
却比想象复杂

我在等一个人
在等我的 永恒

告诉我爱不单行别害怕

告诉我爱不单行相信她

-爱不单行,罗志祥-

as i'm growing up, i'm learning more about myself. constantly.

was talking to my CGL about feeling stuck cuz she asked me some stuff. she says "in order to get out and not feel stuck, we have to make decisions and stand by it."

that's what i'm going to do.
look out for more plans. :)
abit messy. bare with me and thanks for reading till here. :)

God bless! :)
niteys
meeting my babes tml :))